(CNN) — I wrote a book called “Every Day is an Atheist Holiday.” Recently I got up at the non-Vegas magical hour of 6 a.m. to do radio interviews all over the country to let people know about it. I did some interviews with atheist and skeptic podcasts, but the 6 a.m. talks were usually morning radio. And morning radio has a lot of theists.

My book had just come out that day so even jocks who wanted to read it hadn’t had the time to do more than skim. Many of the DJs saw the words “holiday” and “atheist” and asked me how I felt about “The War on Christmas.”

Fox News is usually credited with spreading the panic about this war on Christmas. Bill O’Reilly talks about atheists and left-wing loons ruining Christmas for children.

Fox’s Bill O’Reilly warns of a war on Christmas. Penn Jillette suggests we call it “an honest disagreement on Christmas”

He also says that Christianity is a philosophy, which might have seemed like a sleek move on live TV, but … I’m thinking he’s noticed by now Jon Stewart is biting him in the butt.

O’Reilly finds evidence for the war in atheist groups opposing Nativity scenes on government property and their discomfort with public school students having to opt out when their classes go to a church to see a Charlie Brown Christmas play. Bill is also ticked off by businesses urging their employees to say “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas.” He doesn’t want the holidays turned secular. He wants his Christmas pure. Pure as the Christian philosophy. But he could learn strategy to win the war on Christmas from the Monkees and their ’60s TV show. They’re on a reunion tour (sadly without Davy Jones, but miraculously with Mike Nesmith.)

The Monkees were on TV. They appealed to the broadest audience possible. The Monkees were sanitized. My mom and dad would watch the Monkees with me, and other than their stupid haircuts, Mom and Dad weren’t bothered much by the Pre-fab Four.

Mom and Dad bought me Monkees records. I read Monkees interviews and through them, learned about a guy named Jimi Hendrix who was their opening act in cities I couldn’t get to. I saw Frank Zappa of the Mothers of Invention on the Monkees TV show and in their movie, “Head,” and soon I’d moved from the innocuous to full blown dangerous rock ‘n’ roll. Things that are for everyone sometimes suck us into things that aren’t for everyone.

Think about it, Bill. Many people wanted to keep rock ‘n’ roll pure. Hardcore fans scoffed at the Monkees. They wanted to ensure electric guitars were only for rebels, but the Monkees got the feeling and beat out there to the children.

And some of us, after feeling the beat and digging the feeling, kept going all the way, far out. The Monkees were an entry to rock ‘n’ roll as rebellious as it could get.

“Happy Holidays” could do the same thing.

If Christian philosophers get together and include all Americans in their holiday, if they don’t exclude any children, if they can start with everyone loving the season, maybe the reason for it will sneak in — like Hendrix’s “Electric Ladyland” riding the Monkees’ “Last Train to Clarksville.”

Maybe the sanitized tiding of comfort and joy will lead people all the way to Christianity. There are many ways to proselytize. You could let the crucified Jesus ride in on Santa’s sleigh. Maybe Christians can slalom down that slippery slope.

That might be too manipulative and cynical for Bill O’Reilly. He might not want his Christianity philosophy to ride in on anything. Bill might prefer that one becomes a Christian first and then celebrates the season after earning it.

I can see that point of view. That’s a noble point of view: that Christianity and atheism should compete fairly in the marketplace of ideas. Maybe I should have started with Hendrix and Zappa or not gotten into rock ‘n’ roll at all. That is the high road and I can respect that. But, wanting all children to enjoy the holiday season, with no child left out of the fun, doesn’t seem like a position that’s deserving of the term “war.”

How about we spend some time this holiday season wishing that more of our wars will be waged like the atheist war on Christmas? The wars in the Middle East, waged mostly by members of the Abrahamic religions, kill a lot of people. The war on Christmas has killed no one.

The war on drugs kills many innocent bystanders and wastes a lot of money putting citizens in expensive prisons. American atheists are accused of a war that injures no one and saves all of us money and seems to promote real American values.

Let’s either fight all wars like that or use a different term. Couldn’t we at least call it “The honest disagreement about the Christmas philosophy?”

We’re too busy singing, to put anybody down.